Why do we always run from criticism? Why don’t we see the brighter side of it? Positivity is the best thing you can have. It really helps you to move forward with a strong mind and a positive attitude. It can be a source of motivation. Being an optimist really motivates you and uplifts your energy as it helps you to see the positive side of every circumstance.
But, have you noticed that criticism can also make you a better person? No right. That’s my point. Criticism can make you or break you. But how is this possible? Criticism is supposed to have a negative impact right? Not exactly. You must see the bigger picture of it. Actually criticism can build your confidence and give you the push you need to move forward in your life.
At that moment, you might feel disheartened, you’ll feel like crying, ‘Everything is over, my life is in utter mess, I wish I could turn back’; these kind of emotions. You might even turn out to be the bad person you don’t want to be. So why do we have to have such a mindset, where we tend to play with our lives? Start thinking positively about criticism. Think that it’s a way of motivating you to do better, build your self-confidence, think ‘No, I’m going to do it, I’ll prove it, I can’…Work harder and climb the ladder of success. Confuse other people and show what you’re capable of.
Prove them that they are wrong. Don’t let anyone else have control over your life. Just because one says that you haven’t the capability to complete the task or even do anything good in your life, doesn’t mean that you are already a loser. Show them that you have the willpower to do it. If you think you can, YOU CAN. It’s your life.
This doesn’t mean that you should keep on criticizing people. Always bring out the positivist within you.